Sick days

What's worse than having a sick baby? Being sick (or hurt) while having to take care of a sick baby.

If you are sick enough to be bed ridden, (or injured to the point of limited physical functionality) how much effort are you willing to exert to get yourself out of bed to get a glass of water?  Now add a sick baby to the equation.  A cranky baby.  A crying baby.  A baby who needs more care and attention than normal.  All this on a day when you are not at your best.

Most jobs make accommodations for you when you are sick or hurt.  You call in and take some time off; some jobs even offer paid sick leave.  If you are a stay at home mom and you get sick or hurt, who do you call?
How does mom get time off when she needs it?

Time to call in what ever reinforcements you think will make you and your baby feel better.  (Keep those who would make you feel worse far away.)  If your spouse has a job that allows for dependent care (it's like sick days for your family) ask them for the help you need.  Maybe you have a retired family member or in-law you trust to help you when you don't feel well.  Maybe look to a trusted sitter you could pay to take care of your child while you are recovering.

Being home with a baby is a 24/7 job, don't half-ass it.  Get help.  Everyone has different situations, and what works for me may not even be an option for you.  All I'm saying is when it comes to the well being of you and your child, there is no shame in seeking assistance when you need it.

And of course if you have medical concerns about your baby don't hesitate to call the advice line for your doctors office.  The nurse on the phone can help you determine if you need to make a doctors appointment or take a trip to the emergency room.